Nature is here to nourish us… and to teach
us.
Life Lessons From Lilies
Lesson #2 is about comparing.
The first lesson is the blog below this one.
Are you human? Of course! Well then ... You
compare!
It is in our Design to compare... We all do it.
It is in our Design to compare... We all do it.
It is part of The Human Design... until you begin
to awaken out of it.
Today I am going to give you some keys to
unlock the painful pattern of comparing.
unlock the painful pattern of comparing.
Comparing is
very painful. It is rooted in feeling not enough or okay as we are. We
always come up short when we compare. Comparing makes us feel sad, anxious,
heavy, frustrated, angry... The mind begins to tell us all kinds of stories... and we believe them...and then we feel less than, unworthy, not enough, ashamed, not right, jealous, not where we should be, not_______.
Fill in your
own words. Gosh, as I'm typing this I realize that we are always comparing and
judging. And for sure, we end up
feeling heavy and sad or depressed when we compare ourselves to others.
OR - you
feel superior! Even when you compare and end up thinking that you are
now superior... please gently realize that this too is coming from a
feeling of inferiority. Your ego has temporarily propped itself up.
Here is what I was reminded of as I sat with
the lilies - Every flower (actually every part of nature) is in its own
Different, Divine, Perfect, and Holy place... Feel into the
symmetry and perfection. I saw that some of the lilies are still held in a tight
bud. Some are complete and dying. Others are in full bloom. Nothing in nature
looks at another and compares. Imagine... the lily looking at the sunflower and
thinking there was something terribly wrong about its 'Holy Design'... only
perfection in continuous manifestation...
Everything is in perfect order and flow... adding to the Magnificence, Abundance and Splendor here. Everything makes its unique contribution... in Divine Right Order and Timing. And you, exactly as you are, are part of this. Think about it... no mistakes, nothing wrong... ever... only...
~Divine Perfection
Unfolding~
What to do about this painful
comparing? Just as you can observe nature in all her forms,
variations, and wonders... can you step back a little and observe your self too.
NOTICE when you begin to compare. BREATHE... NOTICE... ALLOW... without judgments and additional commentary. Breathe and Notice the same way as
you would acknowledge and allow what is happening in nature. See how nature has
gifted you by having you practice being the Observer with her. See how you
already look at nature in awe and wonder... Noticing, Allowing... Can you
bring the same noticing to your human self...?
Breathe deeply. Now bring noticing to your thoughts. Perhaps you can begin to
see how they may well be rooted in fear and untruths... Notice the feelings that
arise in your body... BREATHE deeply a few times. SMILE gently and BE SOFT, as
you would be with a confused child who is in pain... BREATHE... NOTICE...
ALLOW...
Every part of Nature lives in its own perfect cycle and flow of birth, life, death and rebirth... and does not compare. Look around outside - such abundance in form...
We are all different too... except instead of celebrating ourselves, we compare because - we were designed that way... for now...
Every part of Nature lives in its own perfect cycle and flow of birth, life, death and rebirth... and does not compare. Look around outside - such abundance in form...
We are all different too... except instead of celebrating ourselves, we compare because - we were designed that way... for now...
The Gift of being human is that we have the opportunity to birth new realities.
And we are creating new Designs and
Realities now!
You always did the very best you could. The pain you felt or feel is so yucky; you just did not know how to deal with it any differently... till now. Because if you are reading this now, and you feel a pain in your heart or your belly... you are ready to birth a new way of being.
Would you like some help? Do you feel stuck? Would you like to stop comparing, bullying and judging your self?
Let's talk. I have 3 openings this week for Phone Consultations ~ Discovery Sessions with you. Click here to book yours. It's FREE. I love being a midwife for the birthing of your Best and True Self.
You always did the very best you could. The pain you felt or feel is so yucky; you just did not know how to deal with it any differently... till now. Because if you are reading this now, and you feel a pain in your heart or your belly... you are ready to birth a new way of being.
Would you like some help? Do you feel stuck? Would you like to stop comparing, bullying and judging your self?
Let's talk. I have 3 openings this week for Phone Consultations ~ Discovery Sessions with you. Click here to book yours. It's FREE. I love being a midwife for the birthing of your Best and True Self.
Trust. You are always and all ways
Divinely Guided, Protected and Held in Unconditional Love Always and All Ways... no matter what
Divinely Guided, Protected and Held in Unconditional Love Always and All Ways... no matter what
You
know
you have to feel good about your self
in order to manifest your Highest Potentials and Dreams!
you have to feel good about your self
in order to manifest your Highest Potentials and Dreams!
Please click here to schedule your
FREE Phone Consultation or your session.
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| Big HeartHugs, Miri |
Self Acceptance~Self Love Coach Transformation Catalyst Reiki & Medical Reiki Master www.OpportunitiesForTransformation.com
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