Tuesday, April 19, 2016

 What the Lilies Taught Me

3 Life Lessons From Nature  
                    Lessons 3, 2 and 1 are below,  in this upside down order.

Lesson #3 is about our FEELINGS... about letting them be as they are, including the feelings of sadness. 


Are you human?  Of course!  Well then - You FEEL! 
                                     It is in our Design to FEEL.    

As I sat looking at the lilies, what came this time was about paying attention and acknowledging that we often feel sad when something ends… when a cycle completes… and that we usually don't know how to allow ourselves the time to feel and acknowledge these natural sad feelings. 

I also saw that even as we complete something or something ends or dies... sometimes we are BOTH sad to let go AND are looking forward to something or someone new.  BOTH ~ AND  For me when my marriage ended after 29 years… and that was fine... there was also an unexpected sadness for something that was completing.

When I moved here from Maryland a few years ago there was BOTH the sadness of leaving the community AND an excitement for what was coming.



Sometimes we have a BOTH ~ AND experience/feelings.

And sometimes there is JUST sadness.

Remember – everything is Holy Perfection unfolding…. Whatever you are feeling is holy and right.  Can you ALLOW and validate your feelings?

Our bodies are about 80% water.  Water represents emotions.  Our nature is filled with all the shades and colors of feelings.
 

Did you grow up with a manual or with parents and teachers who taught you that feeling is a natural part of being human... that all feelings are okay?   
Or did you grow up like me - judging your self as too sensitive, too much, or not enough, for this world…
Can you appreciate your tenderhearted sensitivity instead of shaming your self and beating your self up for this?  Perhaps your parents didn’t know how to help you with your tender sensitive heart… how to support you to be present with your different feelings...
There is much on Forgiving others... What is missing is teaching us how to forgive ourselves... so we can stop holding ourselves hostage... discover how to open our hearts... to ourselves.  So important!!
It is not another’s acceptance that will ‘heal and transform you and your life.'   It is your own acknowledgment and acceptance of your feelings and validation of the beauty and sensitivity of your own heart... that will set you free… to be your unique, magical, amazing self!

It is never too late to open to new perspectives and wisdoms… so we can heal and claim our birthright of JOY, UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE FOR OUR SELVES and INNER PEACE~
Learning how to give your self The Permission to feel what you are feeling.
Do you need support with your Feelings, with Forgiving someone or Forgiving your self?

Would you like to stop rejecting and hating parts of your self...  and discover how to open your heart… to you.
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Trust.  You are always and all ways 
Divinely Guided, Protected and Held in Unconditional Love  Always and All Ways... no matter what 
You know

 you have to feel good about your self

in order to manifest your Highest Potentials and Dreams! 

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Big HeartHugs, 

Miri                                                                                                           
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