Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Transforming How We See, Label and Define Ourselves

Beloved -  I’m inspired to share more about the subject from my last email - A Time of Endings and New Beginnings.  If you missed the message, you can read it below this one.

Endings and New Beginnings is not necessarily about the end of a relationship or career or a move you are having to make, though it can be.

Sometimes it can also be the end of the way you know yourself, label or define your self, especially the qualities about your self that you take great pride in… 

We can be so rock solid about our qualities and how we see ourselves.

We say - 'This is me...   I'm  ______. This is what I do best.  I'm not like that at all.  I can't be like that.  Oh, I would never do that! '  

Some of these qualities are there because they are actually part of our best coping self - the part of us that we developed in order to survive and thrive in an overwhelming or painful world. .

Here's an example - I'm a take charge person, often a leader.   I like that part of me,  and I see that sometimes it is to the extreme of being 'controlling'... thinking/believing that I need to do everything myself, having a hard time trusting others to do the tasks right, not being great at delegating. Familiar to some of you? 

This life is a play, and the parts we have been playing and the costumes we have been wearing are changing and this includes how we know, label and define ourselves.

We are being invited to see with greater honesty and self compassion about how we define ourselves, which in turn LIMITS us and what we think we are capable of. 

I  am also noticing that some of these rock solid qualities are not so solid.... Is this you too?  Do you also notice that you are beginning to show up differently, and are behaving in ways or making choices that are 'uncharacteristic' of how you have defined yourself?

You might be asking yourself - Hmmmm, Who am I??

We are disconnecting from patterns of who we think we are, how we need to show up to be liked and accepted... or what our 'right' path / goal is.

Maybe you are also noticing more emotions bubbling up ...

A new part of ourselves is already beginning to come forth.

We are disconnecting from who we think we are,
to discover who we truly are as we shift into
Soul Alignment ipo Ego Alignment. 

I know it's quite unsettling... and it's also quite exciting! 

Here's a short video I made for you on
Transforming how we see, label and define ourselves. 


We are Spirit having this human experience and a chapter is ending, Our Spirit is bringing forth something new.... and the new is more brilliant, amazing, clear, grounded and balanced than we could imagine or create an intention for!

Perhaps it's better not to create an intention which can be limiting.... and simply Allow Spirit to have her way with you.  She ultimately will !!
Are you finding yourself navigating through old stuff, the tender sensitive places... feeling uncomfortable and more vulnerable?

Would you like to stop beating yourself up about your inability to let go, and learn a better way to navigate through this change?

Would you like to have more 

compassion, understanding and kindness towards yourself 

instead of rejection, blame and shame for your self?  

If you would like support during your transformation process, please contact me for your free 30 minute phone consultation. hedymiri@gmail.com

If you missed my blog post about - 'Heaven to Earth,'  you can read it below. 

"My Complimentary Consultation.  
Miri, you were a blessing to me at my time of need. 

I was embarking on a move to someplace completely foreign to me and I was doing it alone for the very first time in my life.  

I read Miri’s email and I took advantage of the Complementary Consultation that Miri offered and was so comforted and inspired by her genuine warmth, connection and knowledge.  

It calmed the alarms that were going off in my head, got me recommitted to my inner truth and fueled trust and faith in the divine to a new degree of intensity. Thank you Miri. I have had another session with Miri and highly recommend her to anyone looking for some truly inspirational connection to spirit.  I look forward to working with her more in the future.”    DSA

If you're ready for faster shifts, new tools and understandings...

if you're tired of feeling stuck, anxious, depressed

please contact me for a FREE 30 minute Discovery Consultation. 

Big HeartHugs and Abundance of Blessings!


Monday, May 15, 2017


Beloved ~ I find myself once again at a major ending in my life, which means that something new is coming.  A dear friend once told me - It's not when one door closes that another will open.  It is - When one door is closing, another door is already opening!  

I know many of you are feeling this completion and new beginnings too. Giving Birth is uncomfortable...  and we are too far along in the birthing to go any direction other than forward.  I remind myself that whatever is next- my success is assured.  That's just the way it works.  

Not success according to my ego's ideas - success according to my Divine Plan, my Divine Template. 

I am great at Working Hard and Doing.  Now... at this time, I am called to something different.  I can no longer exert great effort, in my old 'doing' ways. I can no longer exert 'my will.'

I am called into more Being. I find I am more and more able to choose to follow the flow, the inner guidance and I AM Allowing and Receiving and Trusting -that everything I need comes to me as I need it, so that I can actualize my highest potential here.   

I am allowing myself to receive the support in every way it can come * and recognizing that it IS here and will continue to be here!  Pretty amazing for a Type A, lone wolf and I can take care of everything type person.  I know how to 'be responsible' and take care of so much.  This way of living is no longer.

You too? Deep changes?  It's quite the unraveling!

The lone wolf  and being the responsible one were the costumes many of us wore for a while...  We are in the process of taking these patterns/costumes off.  We need to be gentle with ourselves, because this all seems to take time.

We are realizing that it is all about collaboration and allowing The Divine Plan to flow through us now... creating a magnetic resonance that draws to us everything we need.  

I AM / We Are Connected to a Divine Directive of Fulfillment. 

I love reading.

"Flames of Grace, An Adventure of Spirit" by Susan Walker called to me earlier today.  I had read it at least ten years ago. 

This morning, I took the book off the shelf, and as I always do with a book that I know has a message for me in the moment... I held it to my heart and then thumbed through and allowed it to open where it wanted to open.  

Here is the chapter from "Flames of Grace" that I opened to...  called:

'Heaven to Earth.'  The texts in bold are mine.

Susan Walker writes:
"As I continued on my journey with the feminine Masters, I began to reflect on my spiritual path.  At that point in my evolution, I had passed through seven spiritual thresholds, each representing one of the seven major chakras. Giving away all that I had, evoked the final of these clearings.  Each passage had been massive, and as I had muddled my way through, I had many moments of wondering if I would survive each one.

The last few years had felt like a constant process of peeling away all that had been taught was truth.  I had left behind just about everything I was raised to hold dear.  I had left the academic world, the professional world and my family values.  I had left men I loved and money I believed kept me safe.  I had lived through a perpetual test of hearing Divine guidance and making the choice to follow all that I knew to be true in my heart, even as fear coursed through my veins.

As I had passed through each doorway and the gifts were showered upon me, it was easy to see the grace in it all.  But there was always a period of extreme darkness just before the end of each tunnel, when all of the fear was making its final attempt to be honored, and I wondered if I would make it to the clearing.

The beings of light who accompanied my journey knew it was my prayer that others would pass through the tunnels with more ease than I, just as my path had been smoothed by those who had come before me.  So whenever I contemplated quitting the entire spiritual process, they were quick to remind me that every moment one person honors truth, it becomes easier for every other person that walks on this earth to do the same. 

In my search for that which could fill me, I had honored my guidance, and time and time again, the world of spirit graced me with love, generosity and blessings. Along the way, I came to realize that my role, like all others, is to bring the seemingly separate world of spirit and matter together.

While I had been gifted with a beautiful connection to the spirit world, I could feel that my true work would be rooted in the physical.  The importance of my life would be in bringing the grace of the heavens to the earth plane and to all of us who walk upon Her. The importance of my life would be in bringing the grace of the heavens to the earth plane and to all of us who walk upon Her."  Susan Walker

 You know who you are, and you know why I am sharing this with you today.  

                            -Stop criticizing your self please.  Please do not give up - you are exactly where you are meant to be.  The caterpillar does not reject the darkness of its cocoon.  It knows it is a necessary part of the journey and supports its deepest transformations. 

                            -Get support.  Sometimes it's a vulnerable conversation with a friend.  Sometimes it's working with a professional like me, who can help you see from a different perspective, and support you to hold the Light of your true vibration, so you can  more easily make your way across the bridge.   

We are living in new vibrations now.  What took so long to work through before – now with the ‘right tools, understandings and wisdoms’,  we can shift more and more quickly.

I am all about helping you lift your self out of our old patterns and ways that no longer serve you.... as quickly and efficiently as possible.   


Are you tired of feeling stuck, anxious, depressed?

If you're ready for faster shifts, new tools and understandings,

please contact me for a FREE 30 minute Discovery Consultation. 

HeartHugs and Abundance of Blessings!